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Moving.

On a different note: it’s hot as balls in my apartment and there isn’t even too much to do but I don’t want to do ANYTHING except lay in front of the fan.

Also, my stupid period FINALLY made appearance. You know, 3 days before my big move. Roar. On the upside, I’m gonna try to make this a strictly instead-cup menses to see how it all goes. I REALLY mean to sit down and write out a thoughtful post about how awesome the instead-cups are, but I keep forgetting.

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Anonymous asked: How can I reconcile my queerness with a relationship with a straight cis man? He's perfect but I am feeling conflicted wrt my sexuality and identity.

quantumfemme:

Your queerness is personal. It belongs to you, existing and residing within the four walls of your person. It does not depend on who you’re fucking, who you’re in a relationship with, who you sleep next to at night. 

Your queerness is immeasurable. It exists if you say it does, if you feel it in you. Don’t let any damn person tell you differently. Don’t let people gate-keep or proscribe what queerness it.

I like this; people assume that my queerness (and while I don’t like to use queer or any version to describe other folk, it is what fits for me) was a phase I went through, or that I somehow got kicked out of the club because my long time partner is a cishet white dude…

And while I struggled with what that would mean, I didn’t feel any different (aside from having a wonderful new person in my life). So I am gonna keep being me—attracted to and capable of loving all types of people.

Love yourself. Know yourself. The rest follows.

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veganweedsoup:

fingertripp:

askatranswoman:

Laura Jane Grace, in all her glory. She’s a trans woman, and she’s also the front-woman from Against Me! (yes, the exclamation point is in the name of the band) and they put out this fantastic album, Transgender Dysphoria Blues, that I will talk about until the end of time. Her writing style is very bracing, and her work comes with a trigger warning, but for anyone that can stomach it, her emotionally powerful lyrics and driving hooks really keep you involved.

PUNK ROCK AS FUCK

i’m so in love with her


I had never listened to Against Me! until I saw an article/Mini Concert they gave for NPR and I really dig them!They’re gonna be in SLO next month or so and I think I’m gonna go!

veganweedsoup:

fingertripp:

askatranswoman:

Laura Jane Grace, in all her glory. She’s a trans woman, and she’s also the front-woman from Against Me! (yes, the exclamation point is in the name of the band) and they put out this fantastic album, Transgender Dysphoria Blues, that I will talk about until the end of time. Her writing style is very bracing, and her work comes with a trigger warning, but for anyone that can stomach it, her emotionally powerful lyrics and driving hooks really keep you involved.

PUNK ROCK AS FUCK

i’m so in love with her

I had never listened to Against Me! until I saw an article/Mini Concert they gave for NPR and I really dig them!

They’re gonna be in SLO next month or so and I think I’m gonna go!

(Source: dreamcaptain, via unicornisms)

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Don’t, for one minute, think that you had any effect whatsoever on my panties.

10 Things I Hate About You (1999)

I don’t think I’ll ever be over him. I will carry him forever.

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